Need some input on a situation that you don’t feel comfortable asking friends and family about? New to these kinks and want some guidance? Struggling to decide if gaining is for you or not? Body image issues? Are you a thin or fit FA trying to navigate social responsibility and allyship? You’ve come to the right place!

Please fill out the form below with your situation. If I am able to put it into circulation, I will reach out and let you know when to expect it to go live. I am currently collecting requests and expect to start publishing in March.


  • You must have an active Feabie and/or Fantasy Feeder account to verify who you are. If you change your username or delete your account and I can’t find you, I will not answer or publish your question. However when added to the column, you will remain anonymous.
  • You must have a valid email address so I can contact you with a followup question and go-live date. Inputs without valid email addresses will not be published.
  • Keep your question under 500 words. Use Wordcounter to confirm. Your questions may be edited for clarity.
  • I will not answer questions regarding practical/how-to gaining advice or how to convince a partner to gain for you but just about everything else is fair game!
  • Turnaround may take a few weeks. Please do not reach out if the matter is urgent.